Sunday, March 8, 2009

Well...well...well...wat do I write abt???



Today is International Women's Day...wat abt the local women??? Duh...:|

Why celebrate days like these...? Really...in a world where true love and respect for women exists
mostly only on movies and books...where does a woman really get placed? Are days such as this, which are only marketing gimmicks of yet another male brainwave, some sort of consolation prize for the bruising female ego?

Movies on the TV, "
celebrating the spirit of the Woman", make me want to laugh...wat a joke it's starting to become!!! If I, living a comparatively peaceful and free life can feel that way...what about women from say, rural India, all over the Muslim world, and elsewhere with parallel conditions? I only get mental images of women in those more "conservative" societies, rolling on the floor with laughter, if that's ALLOWED, per say.

And no, Im not discounting the fact that men have come a long way in respecting women, since wat early men times, but hey! A lot more of the road needs to be travelled down that path...and that too without reminders such as an International day for Women!

In conclusion to this rather random post...I would as a woman, only ask one thing from the men in my life...


learn to expect only as much as you give!

If this can be done...you will keep me happy at most of the times :P
Pseudo-nerd is straight-faced...not this way or that way...:|

P.S. I dont thnk Im being feminist here...if you do, well that'll jus add to the other myths abt mee! ;D

6 comments:

Nikhil Menon said...

Do u ever think ppl realise tht they wud fetch stuff much more than wat they give.then I say,they are doin a mistake.. Yeah..

And about the WD thing,well.All i can say is der are positive steps being taken and am sure time ll make things a lot more clearer and mayb much more towards ur side.. :)

Take care.. :)

Nikhil

Aruna Iyer said...

Hi nikhil...
I didnt reely get wat u mant by "fetch stuff"
And yeah...im not discounting at all the fact that there are a lot o nice guys in d world...who know hw to treat and respect a woman...
Im jus praying I come across one too...:)

Aruna Iyer said...

oops!!! that was supposed to be MEANT....and not the mant i ve written!!!! HOW embarassing!!!! :P

Anonymous said...

when you are almost reaching 30s and when you discover that you are still single, then you tend to question a lot....

womens day!! wishes ...

Nikhil Menon said...

Btw,wer did ur latest post vanish?? :O

Aruna Iyer said...

@Nikhil:
hmmmm...that was something I wrote in a haste...abt something quite personal...dunno y i put it up on my blog...so i removed it as soon as i realised it wudnt b personal anymore if i put it on my blog...:|